So, who are you?

Hello Darling,

So, one thing that I had a lot of trouble with before was realizing that I cannot be loved or respected by others until I loved and respected myself! I am witnessing this issue in so many other females, and ladies you are not alone! It happens to all of us, trust me! But the sooner you value yourself and know your worth the better! 

Let's start off with dating people. Many times us females think we need to have that "Boo" to make us feel special, and loved, and beautiful, and amazing, etc. but listen, sweetheart, in no way what-so-ever does having a guy define your worth. In fact, before you consider dating someone you should make sure you know your worth so that you don't rely on them to bring you happiness and joy. Been there done that--not fun at all. Trust me that brings you nowhere but to a path of loneliness and depression.

Something that really helped me was taking a break from "talking" to guys. If you aren't confident in who you are ladies, then it makes you vulnerable to having other people define you and that's not okay. You should be able to walk down the street and know who you are! 

People think it's weird that I smile and laugh a lot, but I honestly don't care. Their opinions on who I am really do not matter. You should be able to smile because you are happy and confident with who you are, ladies. Trust me, we are all amazing in our own ways, and I truly mean that!

Something that I want all of you to do is to make a list of everything you like about yourself...it can be anything--your style, your personality traits, your passions, whatever it can be whatever you want! And anytime you ever feel sad or down about who you are I want you to pull out that list and look at it to help you remember just how amazing you are! 

So remember, ladies, NEVER allow yourself for one second to think you should be with a guy to make you feel like you are worth something! You need to raise your self-esteem before being with anyone! Always remember you are amazing because God made you just the way you are (:

And remember, ladies, Stay C.L.A.S.S.Y ;)

--Alyssa Louise McCall